quic: apply multiple fixes to flow control signaling

[jasnell]

Fixing up the QUIC flow control signaling and closed stream handling, expand tests.

Update the flow control handling after the iter streams byte-budget based flow control updates.

@nodejs/quic @pimterry @martenrichter

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/quic

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 46.66667% with 24 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 90.09%. Comparing base (2929417) to head (b5be01b).
⚠️ Report is 17 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/dataqueue/queue.cc	0.00%	15 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
lib/internal/blob.js	72.41%	8 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   90.34%   90.09%   -0.26%     
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  Files         751      752       +1     
  Lines      250330   251607    +1277     
  Branches    47321    47277      -44     
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+ Hits       226171   226695     +524     
- Misses      15557    16249     +692     
- Partials     8602     8663      +61     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/blob.js	87.43% <72.41%> (-2.44%)	⬇️
src/dataqueue/queue.cc	65.79% <0.00%> (-1.77%)	⬇️

... and 80 files with indirect coverage changes

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[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/75873/

[martenrichter]

Great addition to find more stalls in the pipeline.
Beside the comments, the rest looks good.

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/75885/ 💛